This is not something we’ve touched on to date at My Red Room, and it’s something can really enrich your sex life. The use of hot and cold temperatures in the bedroom is something enliven and invigorate your sexual areas and ultimately, your sexuality.

From the use of ice in fellatio to applying warm water to the genitals and the power of a warm breath – a bit of hot and cold in the bedroom always has the power to change things up in the act of love.

Read on to find out more about these styles of seduction, and how they can enrich any occurrence of slap and tickle with lovers.

Ice Him Up

Something that has come more to the forefront in recent years is the use of ice to create sexual stimulation. If you're having a romantic evening with strawberries and champagne, don't be afraid to take a cube of ice from the bucket and stick it in your mouth before applying your lips to your man's body and penis. First, use the cool liquid created by the ice and run your tongue down his body, into surprising places - not just down the middle. Go to where he's more sensitive, down the side of his ribs is a nice little trick. 

Eventually with ice still in mouth, make your way to his member, and begin to initiate fellatio-magic. The sensation a man feels with cool water rushing along his shaft is something to take their arousal to a new level and will have him wanting to return the favour. On the topic of returning the flavour, cool water can feel nice for stimulating the clitoris too, if you so desire...

Warm Each Other Up

Switching poles here, guys, but the senses can be just as aroused by the application of heat to your lover. Blow on your lover's skin with that warm, sultry breath of yours, and he or she will become all fired up and ready for some heated loving. Make sure you blow on the erogenous zones: the neck, nipples, earlobes, and of course - the genitals. A guy gets really riled up by having his testicles blown on, and a bit of fan in breath does wonders for the clitoris. 

Add Some Toys

 What's an amazing way to further increase the heat in the bedroom? By adding some appendages, of course. Sexy secrets shop has an awesome collection of toys for guys and girls that are sure to fire things up in the bedroom, have a look for yourself at online store.